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Loved reading this. A lot of it resonates as I am learning to befriend the dark in so many aspects of the word. Thank you for sharing your practice. ✨

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Also putting my hand up to being v inspired by the evening before prep! part of the experience of it. I had to miss last week's for good reason but man I was sad ... looking forward to this week already. agree that early morning dream time is so fertile, so much closer to the semi-processed parts.

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This reframing of the dark is so necessary...reminding me not to run from it, reminding me also of the comfort and wonder of little rituals; the matchbox, the mug, the soft clothes...going to lean more into my own little rituals and embrace the darkness as we edge towards the solstice x

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Yas! I was part of a wonderful conversation the other day about just this. Any fear of the dark reframed through ritual. A sense, too, that we spend a hell of a lot of time shying away from darkness in all its forms, when the best thing we can do is lean in. Face up to it.

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I love this! X

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Love this! There's something about being the only one awake and doing something (ideally creative) in the early morning that gives me a jolt of adrenaline

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Totally, Becky. Being the only one up feels so magical actually. It's never me late at night so early in the morning it must be. I've never worked well in the evenings/ at night time anyway...

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This was a beautiful read Lindsay… really gorgeous. Looking forward to Wed. 🕯️

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Thanks, Claire. I was thinking about our conversation and the difference between summer and winter – the need to welcome changes in our sleep and rest needs as the nights are long. One morning a week, though, feels like something I should commit to!

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Love the ritual the night before - I’ve been more of a rushing downstairs at 5:55 and fumbling in the dark. There’s definitely a different way of accessing the words first thing after waking.

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But by hook or by crook, we've been there! So lovely to see familiar names and faces sharing that hour together too.x

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What a beautiful scene, laying out your mise en place the night before!

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Excellent use of mise en place, friend!😍

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Love reading about what’s been sparking for you Lindsay. And the prep the night before, too. Makes it more of a ritual and therefore special … ❤️

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Thanks to you for offering this time, Layla. It's been such a gift xx

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Oh I'm most creative in the dark early hours as well, when my inner critic hasn't woken up yet and I don't "have to" do anything!

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Agree with Layla. That 'have' voice rings so loudly in the day, doesn't it?

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So interesting about the ‘have to’ part Sophie - I feel the same, pressure is off when the world is still sleeping x

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